What to Do When Your
College Student is Struggling
Wednesday, October 16, 2024
As students
learn how to “do college,” parents may see a variety of changes in their physical
appearance and emotional state. Many students will have more independence and responsibility
than ever before. They need to figure out sleep schedules and may pull
all-nighters; they will endure changes in relationships with family and friends
from home and may not immediately feel like they belong in their new community;
they may be stretched academically in some classes and uninspired in others.
The first year can be an especially difficult time as students establish their
new “normal.” Furthermore, at some point in their college experience, many
students will “struggle” or find themselves in a situation where seeking
support would be helpful. This should
not come as a
surprise if they are challenging themselves, trying new things, and questioning
ideas or beliefs that they have always held. The most impactful learning often
comes as a result of a struggle. While likely uncomfortable for parents, it is
important to remember that this is an important step in their student’s growth
and development. And, rather than try to “fix” things for their students,
parents will be encouraged to help students identify the source of the
“struggle,” what they think will “help,” and how to access support…decision
to degree.
About the presenter: Beth
A. Howland, Founder, College Navigators, LLC & College Student Success
Coach, graduated with honors and was a two-time NCAA National Champion and
Academic All-American in women’s soccer. She earned an advanced degree in
performance psychology and has nearly 25 years of experience as a
college success coach with students at Cornell University, Duke
University, Ithaca College, Tulane University, and UNC-Chapel Hill.